Twinsen's odyssey

幸福到底在哪里，回头的路到底该走不该走

引用

什么是幸福

我餓了，看見你手裡拿著個肉包子，你就比我幸福。

我冷了，看见你穿着件厚棉袄，你就比我幸福。

我想上茅房，就一个坑，你蹲那了，你就比我幸福。 

                ————什么是幸福，杨红旗如是说

所以，

我要拿着肉包子，穿件厚棉袄，蹲在茅坑上。。。

                ————为了幸福，如是说

这样就幸福了吗？

不见得。

为什么？

                ————有疑问

因为，

我拿着一个肉包子，看见你拿着两个肉包子，你就比我幸福。

我穿了件厚棉袄，看见你穿了件羽绒服，你就比我幸福。

我蹲在茅坑上，看见你坐在马桶上，你就比我幸福。

                  ————幸福，原来无止境

幸福永远比现实高那么一点点，让你看得见，却又摸不着。

所以你要一直去摸啊摸啊，

当你再也没有力气去摸的时候，

你回过头来会发现其实你摸到的已经够多的了。

 推动自己不断学习进步的动力源在哪里？对我而言，一种警惕感和危机感始终存在。
人生于世上，生命只在呼吸之间，如果不是每时每刻都精彩，实在太对不起自己。

动力就这么简单。

命如纸薄的红颜，虽然你只在这世上留下惊鸿一瞥，但你灿烂的笑容已是无价，没有任何财富和荣耀能够交换。文字在这里是如此无力，我只能流着泪目送你回到你自己的完美世界...

 

你已经以自己的方式诠释了生命，让无情的轮回带着你平静地去向彼岸

偶然看到父母在81年的通信，里面有许多写到我的情形。依稀间仿佛能看到幼年时我第一次在小黑板上写下自己的名字和那十个阿拉伯数字，第一次敲人家竹杠给我买雪糕吃 (汗...)，还许诺会用压岁钱还给别人(我怎么不记得了)。那时候的我是不可能想到现在的生活状态的，生活的轨迹就是这么神奇，说不定什么时候就会被命运撞一下腰。我爱你们，三十年来的有缘人。

It's been several years since I first heard of this methodology. To visulize your goal before you actually do it. I found it very convincing for me at once. Part of the reason maybe because I treat life as an exciting game, and in game you do want to learn some tricks. You can increase your chance to achieve your goal by that.

 

This is not mysterious, it is backed up by psychological reason. Our brain can do much more beyond our imagination. One of the best feature of it is " focus" . When we focus, our eyes and ears increase sensitivity, as well as our mental instinct. We have the nature of picking up things that interests us out of chaos.

最近考虑很多关于感情的事情，缘起于自己的一点芝麻烦恼：所谓我本将心向明月。

 

到底英雄能不能过美人关呢，我想有两种过法：一种是早早栽在美人手下，之后就免疫了，这样的可遇不可求；另外一种是阅尽繁华，花不沾衣，这就需要很深的修养，对自己，对人性有深刻的认识，对自己有超强的调节能力。一直相信，没有经历过女人的男人无法成熟，我们都是通过对方照见自己。爱是一种能力，也需要学习。我感觉这是重要度仅次于生存的能力。

 

Life is a choice, life is a risk, life's like a box of chocolate full of every kind , but until you open it yourself, you'll never know what's inside.  If you open it, you might get hurt, but if you don't you'll never know about it.

 

 

I wish everyone learn it, but no school teach this.

 

Love is to give, not to take

 

Love is to act , not wait to be acted upon

 

Love is to share when you have

 

Love is not to push your loved ones toward what you want

 

My loved one, if I had pushed too much on you, I'm saying sorry to you.

 

ps: we need to think more about the one who cares about us when we only think of the ones we care